By Amy Chance, Evangelism Task Force Chair
So often when I call visitors to St. John’s, the conversation is a little awkward at first. They don’t know me – I don’t know them. I thank them for worshipping with us, then ask if they have any questions about the church. Sometimes they do, but it’s often hard to make a real connection.
But I had an experience this year that changed the way I approach these conversations.
I was reading John, and noticed that in the first story about calling the disciples, Jesus doesn’t first tell them “Follow me,” or even “Come and see.” First he asks them, “What are you looking for?” Then he invites them to come and stay with him.
So I thought I’d try out that question. The next visitor I called had a LOT of questions of his own – about the times of our services, about our parking, about how we take communion, and more. But when I had a chance, I asked him, “What are you looking for?” He didn’t answer right away. Instead, he had more questions – about our classes, about our preaching, about being Lutheran.
Just as we were about to hang up, though he asked me to wait.
“I didn’t answer your question,” he said. By then I had forgotten what it was!"
He said, “You asked me what I was looking for. I guess what I am looking for is real friends.”
I know that’s what I was looking for when I came to St. John’s – and found them! I’ll remember that the next time I’m calling or greeting a visitor.